You and I really need to get together and discuss multiple-Os and useless men - LOL.
And I totally agree with you that having multiple-Os is NOT what sex is about. That part is easy. In fact if I am ML with H and we are having a bad time (out of bed) I can O in about 10 seconds, roll over and go to sleep. Sorry guys you don't have the monopoly on that one! I do envy you the just sit there in class having them tho - can't do that one. It happened ONE time when I was walking down the street and a certain guy I fancied at the time sprung to mind and OOOPS there it went. I also O in my dreams sometimes. So you are FAR from weird it seems.
OK so you attract users (same here). Do you think you give out a strong/nurturer type image that attracts them and then don't draw the lines in the right places when they start using you? I get the feeling this is what I do. I attract waifs and strays - my mother told me that when I was a little girl at school - because I would always wind up being friends with some poor lost soul no-one else would talk to. I just would feel sorry for them. I am also a person that tends to see the good in people and I see that in you too Landica, so the whole world can be telling me what a jerk someone is and I'm saying *but he's a great cook* or some such.
Anyway, just sharing, so you know you aren't the only multi-orgasimic idiot out there.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
