RE: landica
For me, complaining, begging, whining are a HUGE turn off. Not considering my needs is also a big problem......But I just thought it was something you guys out there with LD/ND wives might want to consider.

Point taken and being worked on for over 2 years. Yours, corri's and other female's POV also taken. Some progress but not much in Lou land.

of course, some people are just naturally LD (or at least they think they are). But some people, like me, are situationally LD.
Naturally LD most or all the time but willing to have sex sometimes because the W/H does not want the H/W to stray or situational LD and not finding the right mix to fix it is what keeps some people here looking for answers.

Lou