RE Landica
But part of me says that these are problems that can't be solved, only managed. And that they're going to follow me into any relationship I get involved in. You know, wherever you go, there you are. (see Landica's confession thread). They just emerge in different ways.

Fixing yourself is one of "Divorce Busting" primary concepts. In my former life (relationship) I was completely, totally, absolutely LD/ND.......I'm one of those unusual women who can O if a guy looks at me cross-eyed.

Holy cow Landica. Another things for us guys with LDW to worry about. j/k Before coming to the forum, I thought BB and LD women in general were that way all of the time. They just plain were not interested in sex with anyone. Now this. Yes I have read stories like yours before.

(women who can O if a guy looks at me cross-eyed) I know, I know, I'm not normal.
Yes but that is most likely just you. Nothing to call yourself abnormal though, just different but within the normal bell curve.

F was under the (entirely mistaken) impression that he was g-d's gift to women
I am a guy and also don't like to be around these type of guys, so what you feel is not gender exclusive.

was therefore completely opposed/oblivious to any of my subtle or not-so-subtle suggestions on how he could make me happier in bed.
The way I hear your statement is you two were not that union or oneness some people call an EC with F. Tough when one person thinks they know all of the answers even when you give them the clues and they ignore you or tell you, you are wrong. No equality, no team work, no sense of "US."

Then there are guys like Chrom ( and others ) looking for clues and can't pry them lose from their W.

Situational LD/HD. What to do and when? Why don't they/we get it?

Landica, posts like yours helps some people not give up on their R and think maybe there are other reasons for little or no EC that leads to LD/ND.

Lou

Last edited by OG_Lou; 03/04/06 03:46 PM.