Starting another thread to make a confession. In my former life (relationship) I was completely, totally, absolutely LD/ND.

This was with a guy I was engaged to, post-divorce (call him F for fiance). I quickly lost all interest in anything sexual with him. Everything even remotely sexual that he tried with me, I was sooo not into.

Partially, this was because F was under the (entirely mistaken) impression that he was g-d's gift to women and was therefore completely opposed/oblivious to any of my subtle or not-so-subtle suggestions on how he could make me happier in bed.

Partially, this was because (TMI WARNING), I'm one of those unusual women who can O if a guy looks at me cross-eyed. No physical contact required.

I know, I know, I'm not normal. So F was convinced that he was the world's greatest lover b/c I always had multiple Os.

F's ex-wife had told him (I'm not sure why he relayed this to me) that after having sex with him, she felt like a prostitute. I didn't tell him this, but, she definitely had a point.

So I can definitely identify with all the LDW on this board. It got to the point where I just didn't want him to touch me, because it would always lead to not-so-great sex. In fact, I totally lost all interest and would say basically anything to justify my lack of interest.

So many of the "justifications" given by LDWs on this board are scarily reminiscent of the things I used to tell F, just to get him off my back (or front, as the case might be).

Just sayin'

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