If men can make themselves happy, then why do we need women? I would LOVE to be able to meet all of my own needs, because then I would be COMPLETELY happy. If divorce is not an option, and cheating is not an option, then how do I meet ALL of my own needs, assuming that my wife never changes. How does a man achieve complete happiness without a lover/soulmate? I am already filling my life with children, family, friends, job, and other activities, but NONE of them fulfills my most important needs. These are all MINOR needs in my life. Can HD people be completely happy without significant love lifes?