Sparkless,

You said:

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The only issue my H has in this relationship is the lack of sex. He would be a happy camper if this issue was resolved. His responsibilities are making his breakfast and lunch and going to work. He does work really hard and long hours and I respect that. Luckily it's a job where you just leave and don't have to bring any work or worries home. I just get left with everything else. I guess I get overwhelmed and tired . I mean, he doesn't even remember his own sister's birthday!(or anyone elses for that matter)
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I'll bet my H would also say that my only issue is the lack of sex in our R. While I am generally happy, find him to be an excellent parent and partner etc... sex ISN'T the only issue that I have.

I would bet that you both have more issues than the sex or lack thereof. I would recommend that you explore them.

Karen