Re sparkless We started from not having sex in 6 months to twice a month and that just wasn't enough
I understand your position and am sorry your H does not treat you better, so don't take this wrong or as something you should do.
I suppose your H's real sex drive is more around 2X or 3X a week so even at 2X a month he feels like he is compromising. This is just my level of sex drive and maybe a lot of other men's sex drive.
I am not saying you should meet his SD needs/wants, I'm just posting information. Example; Person "A" is a 4X a year, person "B" is 4X a week. What do they do???
Sorry, I can't even help myself and I clean, cook, do home repairs, pay the bills, and am home every night.
