Quote: "everything in a man's life is connected to sex."
I do think that it is this way for my H. If he had sex whenever he wanted it he would be a lot happier and nicer - until the next time he thought that he wasn't getting enough. A big part of the problem in the past has been that he wasn't happy with the frequency of LM. We started from not having sex in 6 months to twice a month and that just wasn't enough and he blew up. It feels like however much I try, it just isn't enough.
CeMar,
The only issue my H has in this relationship is the lack of sex. He would be a happy camper if this issue was resolved. His responsibilities are making his breakfast and lunch and going to work. He does work really hard and long hours and I respect that. Luckily it's a job where you just leave and don't have to bring any work or worries home. I just get left with everything else. I guess I get overwhelmed and tired . I mean, he doesn't even remember his own sister's birthday!(or anyone elses for that matter)
He said to me the other day that he is going to have the kids all weekend, every weekend so I get a break. This was very thoughtful, but I told him I don't need that. Once a month would be good, but not every one. We would never see each other then! I think we need a back to basics approach. We need to actually plan time together and by ourselves instead of just talking about it and getting frustrated when nothing eventuates. It would be nice to have something to actually look forward to.
I don't know how I got started on all that, but there you go.
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
