Cemar,

No one wants to have sex with someone who does this:

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He told me to leave on Friday night and I did. We didn't have an argument as such, he just went off the handle because I didn't want to eat the vegetables he was making and I was answering him with yes, no answers. WTF? He was yelling and calling me disgusting names (in front of our kids), so I went upstairs, he followed, still screaming at me and I packed my bag.
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Until he treats her with respect she isn't going to want to have sex. This is not about issues only "she" cares about - it is about the issue of being on a level playing field, having basic respect and caring. Who said anything about 5 or 10 years? Cemar, quit projecting.

Karen