You are correct in your statement, I think you would find that if you had a satisfying sex life then you would no longer believe that "everything in a man's life is connected to sex." As I have seen it written and said, when the sex is good in a marriage it is not that big of a deal and not the focus of the relationship, yet when there is a problem with SL then it does becomes a big deal. (or something to this affect. )
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