If I was having great sex, then yes, sex would become far less important. However, in the background, virtually everything is eventually connected to my sexuality. I did not quite understand any of this until I started reading the books and thinking, WOW, this is ME! I fit the profile they present almost exactly. This is not just MY belief, there are a lot of books that describe mens sexuality this way, and these are not crack pots. Testosterone determines almost everything about a man, the good AND the bad. And since testosterone is the ONLY sex drug, and men are dripping with it, it seems that his sexuality is going to have a HUGE effect on who he is.
