Cemar,

I think you would find that if you had a satisfying sex life then you would no longer believe that "everything in a man's life is connected to sex."

Sparkless,

I understand that for whatever reasons you don't have a desire for sex but....do you have a desire to please your H? Make him happy? Sometimes that is the "desire" that precedes sexual interaction. However, given how you have described your H I can understand not having the desire to please him nor make him happy. If so, where do you go from here?

Karen