Quote: When a wife loses her libido, a husband's first reaction is often to assume that the wife is purposely withholding sex.
I will admit, that after being abused verbally and sometimes physically for having such a low SD that I did actually stop having sex with him intentionally. It has taken us a long time to get past these issues.
Quote: you might nevertheless want to show your husband some compassion and understanding
If I didn't have any compassion for my H in this situation, I wouldn't be here. I must say that I'm finding it harder to be compassionate when I get accused of having an affair one weekend and getting kicked out of the house over one worded answers the next... he says he needs help, but I won't hold my breath.
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
