Sparkless - don't know if you are still around but you could be me! I hope things are going well. I like what people were telling you - especially Corri. I have dealt with H's rages and struggle with resentment and frustration and hormones. I'm taking progesterone, dhea and testosterone and still having trouble! I haven't heard of vitex. Maybe that will help if I can let go of all of the mental garbage that has happened to us. We have 2 kids and pg killed my hormones. I know a lot of it is mental though. I am overeating which is always a sign for me that I'm avoiding some real feelings.