Just out of curiosity. Is there ANY way your H can touch your breasts that wouldn't irritate you? The reason I say that is that my H has (in the past) had a way of touching my breasts that just really irritated the crap out of me....but he would continually touch me the same way...and it was such a turnoff (bad thing since my H is a breast guy).
Of course with him I think he continued to do that to intentionally turn me off....BUT, I digress. I became very sensitive to touch there after giving birth to our S as well.....however there are ways he can touch me that I definitely prefer. I hate to be tickled (absolutely can't stand it)....but I don't mind a massaging motion.
Perhaps you could try to figure out what touch in that area you can handle and then show him. Flat out tell him that the way he was touching you simply is a turnoff now since you had your child...it's nothing to do with him, it's merely a change in your body....but that you do like (whatever touch you like) and then show him.
My H now knows, and believes me, that when he touches me a certain way I can't stand it....but if he does what I showed him, he gets a much different result.
BTW...have you talked to your Dr. about your lack of SD?
