The fact that you are here speaks volumnes. That means you know there is a problem and you want to do something about it. Most of us with LD spouses aren't so lucky to have a spouse that is willing to tackle the issue, and until the LD spouse is onboard with fixing the issue, there is almost nothing that we can do alone.
Have you read His Needs/ Her Needs? It's a good place to start, both spouses need to identify what their needs are.
Don't believe that this is our issue to resolve alone. It sounds to me like your husband needs to address some issues as well, he needs to start meeting your needs, so you need to make that clear to him.
Just curious, what are the goals for your marriage?
