Quote: From what I see here, you would like to basically give up sex. You are asking your husband to give up his #1 need. Is this a realistic expectation? How do you thnk that will make him feel? Does he have the right then to ask you to give up your #1 need as well? Do you see the need for sex as not being a valid need?
Well CeMar, if we could both give up sex I reckon life would be fantastic. Our household would be so much happier. But I do know that it is impossible and that is why I'm here talking to you lovely people.
I am searching for clues how to satisfy H's needs as well as my own. I want to be clever about it and not take the easy road of just laying there, rolling my eyes, thinking hurry up. Funny though, everything was fine for him until I stopped doing that. I felt like I should have been doing it for money, at least I would have gotten something out of it. Sorry I digress.
In the meantime I will lurk around getting ideas and wait for my herbs to kick in.
I wish I had a chocolate biscuit...
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
