Quote: Did you make this clear to your husband BEFORE you got married? If not, your changing the rules of the game in the middle of the game.
Sorry, but I didn't realise that marriage was a game. Doesn't feel like it.
Ok, what is the point of us teaching our kids that they have control of their bodies if when they get married they are supposed to 'give it up' to their spouses? Perhaps we should go back to the dark ages and tell the girls that once they get married they must do their husbands bidding, no matter how it makes them feel.
Quote: On the one hand you say you love your husband, but at the same time, you are unable to show him love in his love language, why? Remember, when you give love, you must give it the way your spouse wants to receive it. The way that YOU want to give it is totally irrelevant. The same goes for him as well.
Maybe you've hit a nail on the head here CeMar. My H may tell me he loves me all the time but why doesn't he show it by cleaning the toilet? (I don't know how many times I have asked). Now that might float my boat
Herein is the conundrum. If two people (or one even) in a marriage are showing their partner love in a way that makes them uncomfortable, how can this be a good thing? What is being achieved? Shouldn't they work on ways that are beneficial for both parties?
Damn I wish I was a nympho...
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
