A bed is made for sleeping is it not? I don't see why two people can't sleep in the same bed together if no one's sleep is being disturbed.
I guess I feel that my body is mine and it is my call where and when I want to be touched in a sexual way.
I understand that my H feels unloved and undesired but the truth is I don't desire him in a sexual way. This does not mean I do not love him. I feel that the only reason I need to have sex now is to keep my husband happy and that in itself is not a good enough reason put my own self worth on the line. I have done it in the past and it caused more problems than it fixed. I want to be able to be a willing participant and I am working on it. Things take time to fall to pieces and they take time to put back together. Trouble is they can't be forced into place either.
It can't come quickly enough
And now you've spent your life
Waiting for this moment
And when you finally saw it come
It passed you by and left you so defeated.
Scissor Sisters - 'It Can't Come Quickly Enough'
