Here is what trips me up about my husband: He is physically aroused enough to initiate but not mentally aroused enough to 'show' his desire. He needs me to get him "over the hump" as he puts it. Mostly, I'm fine with this. But there are times when I'd like to have someone salivating over me...wanting me...and to have the experience of being turned on because the *other* person is turned on.
