"I mean ideally you would be out at a restaurant sharing a romantic dinner with your H and you would slip him a note on a napkin that said "I'm not wearing any panties."
Why hustle outside or wait? If it is one of those nice restaurants with a long table cloth, I would lean over and whisper in her ear "mmmm, let's see how well you can maintain an air of quiet dignity in this posh restaurant" and slide my hand down between and ...
Of course, I can't see my W slipping me such a note, so I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum.
Chromo
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"