The problem with us (HDW) is that the thing that makes the "no panties" scenario and many other scenarios more sexy is the "unobtainability" factor. I mean ideally you would be out at a restaurant sharing a romantic dinner with your H and you would slip him a note on a napkin that said "I'm not wearing any panties.". I think you could probably measure pretty accurately how HD a man was by how he would react to this note. My H would quite possibly do something like crankily say "I'm trying to eat my dinner.". I imagine Mr.HP blushing and getting very quiet as he glanced around nervously to make sure nobody else could possibly get a peek. OTOH, Hank would either:
A) Fling some money on the table and hustle me out to the car for some action.
or
B)Look me in the eye put his foot between mine beneath the table and say something like "Your legs are touching. Spread them a little, baby. No, more. A little more. Yeah , that's nice." and then keep me waiting while he leisurely finishes his drink.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
