Lillie: I was referring to the topsy-turvy dynamic of HP's marriage. The chapter in Michele's book about "arousal and desire", the first time I read it, seemed to apply exclusively to females. Here, however, is a man who needs to be aroused, by someone else, in order to feel desire for her. It just seems so strange to me.
Hairdog, who can't fathom what antecedent might have been unclear, and, instead, will blame Lillie, who needs to stop letting her bf drink SOFT water. And, needs to stop shopping at WalMart.
