Lil, Yeah he did admit that but he retracted it last night.
Jenny, I've laid out scenarios before and he seems to think that it is for the sole purpose of getting him aroused during foreplay. That is, he likes it..he wants to keep talking about it and he loves the thought of it. But if I asked him to seriously DO something like that, he'd balk. I know this because I've done it and he refused. Flat out. We had a talk one time about how he wanted me to wear a skirt with no panties. I said fine and emailed him one day and said, Today's the day! He got home, would barely look at me, and didn't so much as touch me the rest of the night. There are, of course, other examples. Now, to be fair, this was a while ago and he might react differently these days, I'm not sure.
But my point is that he likes to talk and 'plan' what he should do but the follow through is not there. Mostly because he, as he says, doesn't think about it throughout the day so I'd have to remind him and by that time, I wouldn't even want it anymore. Women.
