Yes my good mood will come back and, along with that, the suckitupness that is required for: a woman being okay with bringing the heat for both.
I forgot to add that when I was being snippy he said, with a loud sigh, "I know I fail you as a lover. I know you want rose petals thrown all over the bed and more romance and I don't deliver it."
Now, we've had this convo (I don't know why he's fixated on this particular scenario) maybe a dozen times--it keeps coming back. EACH and EVERY time I say, Oh I don't need rose petals..what I'd really find sexy is more aggression or some definitive moves that let me know that you're into me..you're into the sex. As it is, I feel like you could take it or leave it and, let's face it, you fall asleep nearly every time at some point during foreplay.
So last night he brings up the dang rose petals again, only this time I looked straight at him and practically shouted "I don't want any friggin rose petals!!!!" LOL
My frustration at having the same conversations--complete with the same responses by me--is extremely high. I did tell him, yet again, that I don't need romance (though I do like it, it's just not first on my list) but I would like a little more aggression.
I can't for the life of me figure out why a person would keep saying the same things, even though I've told him he's wrong each time he says it.
I know I've done this with him in the past (You don't want me ) and how frustrated he was with me. He finally hollered at me and I stopped saying it. Eventually I even got differentiated enough to be able to see that he does want me.
) and how frustrated he was with me. He finally hollered at me and I stopped saying it. Eventually I even got differentiated enough to be able to see that he does want me. 
