Unfair burden that he's not aroused until you are aroused. Okay, I'm tracking ya. Is this desire-after-arousal thing a legitimate reason for me always going "first"? Uh, yeah, if you want to have sex, that is.
This is very close to the normal dynamic of my marriage, and many other men on this board...from the man's point of view. It never stops feeling kind of weird when I hear it out of your mouth, though. Or any woman's mouth, for that matter.
And him not thinking about sex during the day? That is freaky. Normal when I hear it out of my W's mouth, but not out of a man's mouth. At least out of the mouth of an otherwise healthy, "normal", relatively young man.
Moving is very stressful. On the one hand, you want to discount all the interactions during this time because, man....you're under stress. On the other hand, however, you want to dissect all the interactions during this time because, man ...you're under stress.
Just keep packing the boxes and stop overthinking.
Hairdog, who blames his double hernia on the last time he moved.
