Quote: Believe me, honey, you'll never find a Four encouraging you to shove your darker feelings aside and just "act cheerful."
That's for sure . I was just thinking about how my problem is the opposite of HP's. My H finds me MORE sexually appealing or at least he initiates more when I act cool, withdrawn, subdued or depressed. The problem is that I have no desire to actually feel or behave that way. I prefer to feel and act warm (hot ), social, enthusiastic and happy.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
. I was just thinking about how my problem is the opposite of HP's. My H finds me MORE sexually appealing or at least he initiates more when I act cool, withdrawn, subdued or depressed. The problem is that I have no desire to actually feel or behave that way. I prefer to feel and act warm (hot 
), social, enthusiastic and happy. 
