Awwww honey... I wish we could be there to hand out some hugs. What you are experiencing is a natural stage of the grief process... You are still sad, still accomodating to the feeling of missing your Dad and you are ready to reach out for connection. You just don't have the emotional energy to reach too far. Try to be patient with your H's confusion - he doesn't know whether to "burden" you with sex or not. I know that this is a recurring theme in your M (mine too) but try to be patient, talk with H and be grateful that he isn't an a-hole who doens't care that you are grieving.
