You are an awesome woman. Good job on selling the house especially without help and with all that is going on. Do you have another house picked out?
I am very sorry to hear about your Dad. I cannot imagine how painful that must be.
If you need a cyber buddy, GEL has my email address and I have told her that she is free to forward it to you. I only wish that I lived where I could help you pack, take the kids for a while, bring a bottle of wine and a hug - whatever.