Wow - that is a load of sh!t to deal with. I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I will include him and your family in my prayers.
I hope you remember to cut yourself and your H some slack. It is just a really hard time. Don't forget to ask H for what you need. I'm sure he knows your hurting and would love some clues as to what to do.
When I mix a drink in Daytona on Saturday I will think of you.
Karen
PS Wow - BIG weight loss. Don't lose too much - keep your curves!
