Had a long talk with H who has been "ignoring" (his words) me for 10 days. Really, it's nothing more than conflict avoidance. He asked me to get him a book on CA so suggestions are welcome!
I asked why he thought that ignoring me would make things better and he said It won't but then I don't have to have a confrontation. I replied, A. What are you expecting to happen; and B. How much worse does a confrontation become when it's been "ignored" for a period of time?

So.......no real resolution yet. I don't yet have the energy to make it happen, but things are happy and nice nonetheless.

Oh and Scott, I was quite offended to hear you refer to my children as demons. That's just not true.

The word you are looking for is hellions.

Thank you all for the well wishes! Wish I could write more but my arm hurts so I'm callin it a day.

love to all of you!