I am debating if I should change my attorneys, but it's a big decision. The reason I am considering this is b/c some of the comments my current atty made (e.g., your husband just left you, but not your child, why would STBXH want to do that, he is a father, you should let him see your son more often, because I am a divorced father myself and I never felt that the standard visitation was enough, etc.) made me feel uncomfortable. He is divorced himself, and sometimes I felt that he is very biased.
The new lawyer I met was nice, but all the attys act "nice" when you first meet, right? And there will definitely more costs involved by changing attys... is it worth it? I am not sure.
I am not saying that my current lawyer is not capable of doing his job, it's just that I feel sometimes that he is "mad" at divorcing women b/c of his own experience. I could be wrong, but he often expresses his own feelings about D. Also he has some "attitude" problem - that is another thing. But do you think these are not good enough reasons to change my attnys?
Has anyone changed his/her lawyers in the middle of the D process? What is the deciding factor, and are you happy with your decision?
