The only way I know of to do this is called cheating! That's hardly sublimating Cemar. Are you honestly going to tell me there is NOTHING you can do to control your sexual urges? I'm sure your a bright guy Cemar, not some wild animal. Although I must say, I wonder if you have some sort of brain injury, the way you stick on a point without seeming to deviate at all from your militant stance. It's quite obsessive. So I guess I'll ask (even though I doubt you will respond) - can you give us a bio-psycho-social summary of who Cemar is. I'm actually quite fascinated in the potential answers. You yourself said the sexual act is 75% mental, so maybe you need to work on your "mental game." Like I said in the previous post, Perception is Reality.
