Fwiw, I've already sewed new curtains for the bathrooms, all of them, LOL.
But I get where you're going with this and it would work. I think the trick, for me, is in finding something to occupy me so that I don't go to bed with him on those nights when he's giving off vibes. I hate laying there hearing that silent chatter, kwim?
I have many things I'd like to do in the evenings after the house is asleep and never do it cause I think I need to go to bed with him. ??
Of course, this would only happen occasionally, as his sex drive is somewhat predictable..usually every 3 days for several days in a row and then a break of several days. So I'd only be 'sewing' a handful of days and would find it quite pleasurable.
Btw, I don't go to bed with him always as a way of "getting" sex; I just like the idea of falling asleep together. However, it does get frustrating on weeks such as this.
Hey, we've waited ALL THIS TIME to hear about the trip to Alaska and all you guys can think about is sex? I want to hear about Alaska. Jeez, Jenny, I was worried about you. It's great to know you're alive and well.
A) Go to the mall and buy a hot new outfit in the hope of enticing Mr.HP into continuing the f*ckfest.
B) Have a talk with Mr.HP about how she does not appreciate the unpredictability of his sex drive.
C) Make Mr.HP his favorite dinner and spend quality time talking about religion with him in the hopes that he will reciprocate with sex.
D) Go to the mall and buy hot new outfit. Plan on spending the evening out at the bar with some girlfriends wearing hot new outfit because she knows she's unlikely to have any fun or get any affirmation at home. Let Mr.HP cook his own dinner and deal with the kids.
E) Go to the mall and buy a hot new outfit, the ingredients for Mr.HPs favorite dinner and the materials to start sewing some new curtains for the bathroom. Greet Mr.HP at the door wearing hot new outfit and serve him his favorite dinner. Spend the evening engaged in the enjoyable activity of designing curtains for the bathroom.
uhhmmm... in LFL land the answer is D. not right? wrong?
curtains? ???
Can I sublimate by sitting in the kiddie pool with a Corona while working on my tan? I'll even read Star magazine or something. Damm! I miss summer. It's in the teens right now and the snow is falling out the window as a type. Blech. I don't think I would do well in Alaska.
Making curtains isnt that hard. I did it for my bedroom, when I was a teenager. and it most assuredly would have prevented that pesky incident of the blinds. Not such a useless endeavor after all.
hahahaha.
Mojo. where in Alaska did you go? where you there for an extended time?
LFL, One of the countless times I was out fishing when I lived in Alaska, the bites werent coming and I keep nodding off. I decided to head over to shore, a rocky beach, and take a nap. Took off my shirt beause the sun felt good. rolled it up and used it as a pillow for my head. didnt think I would really get a tan. So I fell asleep for a couple hours. With my left hand on my chest. Woke up with a sun burn on my torso, with my hand and arm clearly visible as a stark white contrast to my red chest.
It looked like someone smacked the hell out of me.
So I fell asleep for a couple hours. With my left hand on my chest. Woke up with a sun burn on my torso, with my hand and arm clearly visible as a stark white contrast to my red chest.
It looked like someone smacked the hell out of me.
- Okay. I'm sorry but...LMAO. ROTFL.
Thanknks, blackie, I needed that tonight.
(...as i have this mental picture of blackfoot groggily stumbling across some local Inuits. They stop, look at each other then back to BF. Later recounting about mysterious man in vision quest, known afterwards in folklore retelling only as : "Man with Hand on Heart")
Well, maybe if it was your right hand?
....again...LMAO. Thanks. I remember John Candy did the same in that movie, "Summer Rental." Fell asleep on beach and went out to dinner later with bizarre pattern sunburn.
-Stigmata-
PS. Hey, you shoulda gone to a baseball game later with yer shirt off. Wouldn't even have to place hand over chest during national anthem.
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ
Quote: I bet some of them ACCEPT the fact that the SL will never be what they had hoped but have effectively sublimated these urges in other directions.
The only way I know of to do this is called cheating! Being HD is NOT optional for most men. There is NO SUBSTITUTE for physical touch.
I agree with you. The most important aspect of sex is your partners mindset. I have never understood why LD women think that if they give you the physical part, then we are going to be happy. It is the MENTAL part that counts for about 75% in a sexual encounter!
I have never understood why LD women think that if they give you the physical part, then we are going to be happy. It is the MENTAL part that counts
Women give just the physical, because the man is so completely oblivious to her EMOTIONAL needs that it becomes obvious to her, that all he cares about is the Physical.
Glad I could amuse you. Where I lived the Native American tribes where Tlinkit and Haida. Inuit live way up north from where I was about 3000 miles. Brrr. Really cold up there.
