RE MojoReturns/JJ The most important thing I learned is that HD and LD are really not opposites but variations on the same theme of ego and control played out in the area of marital sex.

LD and HD are pert of a bell curve, and yes ego and control are part of the picture.

So glad you said Hi. At one time I wondered if you alive. Good to hear from you.

I left the board cold turkey because I knew that it had become part of the problem rather than part of the solution for me.
I have some of those feelings too. BTDT.

Lou