Old age is so sad.

[MJontheMend]

What specific actions would you like to see from your husband besides not pressuring you to have sex or get a job? I think in one post you indicated that you wanted to be in a relationship with someone with whom you could talk and share your dreams and problems. What actions have you taken to make yourself the kind of person with whom your H would want to share? What I mean by this is that HD people spend a lot of time trying to figure out what it is about them that is maybe making them not sexy to their spouse. Have you tried to figure out what it is about you that might be making you not "sexy" to your husband in the area of conversational intimacy?

I'm really trying to be helpful to you by being a little bit tough in this regard because I am trying to imagine the man who would be all about sharing intimate conversation and not so much into sex and I'm drawing a blank.