I am not saying to leave but I am saying that you are utterly alone in your understanding of how much trouble the M is in.
I totally agree with this statement.
H walked up on me and asked if I was bitching about my marriage again as I finished my response to your lost post. He read the end of it and I told him he would not understand it unless he read the whole thing. I got up and he read the whole page 8 of my thread. He did not seem interested in reading more of it. (But he also did not fly off the handle at me. There is a start).
If it would have been me I would have started at the begining to see and understand what was being talked about. Not bits and pieces of conversations that refer back to prior statements that I am not aware of. So I guess again I could say he is not trying or to worried about understanding. Not sure what to think about his lack of response.
Gel and Nicky.
Maybe I do know and as you said I am afraid of the next step. I am not really sure at this point if I know or I think I know. As long as there is doubt I keep thinking I need to move slowely since the choices effect more then myself.