I am not upset at all about the apartment. I guess its like when your in a really hot room and someone offers to open the window so you can get fresh air. You don't care you might get cold as long as you can breath. Also I really don't believe he has intent the more I think about it. I found evidence of his looking while I was gone which was almost a month ago. Nothing since. I think it was more a staged find for manipulation and reaction.
And yeah I am happy he is doing it. And it does take away from some of the issues of making the decision myself. If the shoe was on the other foot around here and it was me thinking about leaving there would be hell to pay.
I have felt trapped into having to stay for a long time by his anger. This seems like someone is unlocking my cage in a way and giving me the option to stay or go.
