Honey... One thing I feel you should be actively doing is filling your H in about how you are emotionally feeling...you know, having an intimate conversation. Let him into your world. I do think you shouldn't bail him out ( right now) in the physical dept ( which includes any personal act directed solely for you)...too much resentment there right now...although if he makes no move for some time then the confrontation process will have to begin again. let's see where he is at.
