Quote: Could that be at least part of the reason for your E-detached feeling?
Tim, I'm responding over here before JJ kicks me off her thread.
I think you are right. Also, I want to be comforted but not by talking about it. Kwim? What the heck is there to say? I just want his physical presence near me, by me, on me. And his face is in the tube! Although I must say that the last two nights he has not watched anything so perhaps we'll be able to construct a new routine that works for both of us.
I felt more connected last night but he's still in conflict avoiding mode. For once, I'm not stepping into my old "role". I'm just going to be and let it all unfold as it will.
