Well this is news to me. didnt know this about your sitch.
have you ever tried changing up, slowing down, stopping or other wise being the cause of her not getting her O. Being in control instead of letting her be? Get close to it then back off before she can say or do something. Several times. Pause, delay. Get distracted by another part of her body. <hmmm where was I? What were we doing? oh yeah...> Then continue where you left off.
also. Ever tried just fimly gripping her and holding her down or otherwise 'pinning her' and continuing on with whatever you are doing (hand, oral, whatever.)-despite her protests--when she is close? If you have not, Try doing this after the 3rd or 4th time delaying or stopping. Its a good thing. Very good.
You can even enlist her assistance and reverse it.
EX. 'I need you to tell me when you are close so I can stop. I know you dont want to O'. or 'I want you to fight it but I am going to keep going anyway'.
I have more but I keep squicking myself out when I read it. time for bed anyways.
