The staying up late to watch movies is somewhat worrisome. It may be his way of coping with the stresses he's going through, but it's not a positive habit to get into, long term. You may need to confront him specifically on that issue, especially since it robs you of time together, presumably.

I agree. It's also an avoidance technique and can start to become a crutch when the R is not at it's best. H and I are still guilty of this at times. It is definitely having any impact on the lack of EC you feel right now HP. I'd talk to him about it.