HP, Hey, stop staring down that road my friend, it doesn't lead anywhere you want to go Tell him again that you are feeling a little left out, and that you feel a little like you are the only one carrying the weight again. ie, tell him what you just told us here. Do it in a loving way, don't be accusatory. Let him know you are concerned, and that YOU MISS HIM. Keep it loving, but let him know exactly what you need. It'll help if you can get him to understand what it feels like to you. Maybe using the Lenten season as a reason to pray together might help as a way for you to express your desires to God in the presence of your H so that he too will hear your desires without it being directed at him?
Tell him again that you are feeling a little left out, and that you feel a little like you are the only one carrying the weight again. ie, tell him what you just told us here. Do it in a loving way, don't be accusatory. Let him know you are concerned, and that YOU MISS HIM. Keep it loving, but let him know exactly what you need. It'll help if you can get him to understand what it feels like to you. Maybe using the Lenten season as a reason to pray together might help as a way for you to express your desires to God in the presence of your H so that he too will hear your desires without it being directed at him? 