Thank you Kansha for bringing this up. I'm not familiar with your sitch, but I am very pleased to see that,according to your list of things to do while DBing, I am on the right track. I hope I stay on it. If you read my thread "Am I doing everything wrong?" you'll see that I had to set boundaries too. It was the hardest thing so far, but I felt guided to do it, and I think it's for the best. Thank you again.
