Thanks Patience: There are so many people that need help here. I'm hoping that by posting this clear list that people will take things from it and be able to implement one or two things a step at time.

But, as you and I know, when you are hurting so much, you really need a kind person to hold your hand and listen. Even now I appreciate a personal response. A word of encouragement.

So, I thank you for yours. How are you feeling? Glad the operation was successful. Keep us posted.