Imdi, Just wondering how you're doing. I understand that posting can sometimes remind you that your sitch is not moving forward or backwards. Hello Limbo!
I haven't posted in a while myself though I do check in on everyone from time to time. I was just rereading what GH wrote and I think it is so true.
Quote: When you finally decide YOU'VE had enough, he will come running back . . . The bad/sad part is that you have to get there on your own, either because you just have had enough, or you decide to totally drop the rope. I don't think any amount of posting/reading can get you to that point.
I've had some very dark days recently but it has gotten me to the point where I have been able to realize that I cannot stay in limbo. I don't want to let go of my H but I don't have a choice. If he is going to come back he's going to do it on his own and I have finally started to move on. It's too soon to tell what the long-term results will be but it certainly has his attention. I don't want to hijack so I'll post more on my thread.
Anyway, I just was wondering if you were OK and wanted to pass along some of the strength I've been able to find recently.
