Good girl! You did great; you said everything I would have said, and you did it so that it wasn't confrontational either. Excellent, A+ work!
And he said he would be thinking about it, right?
Now, about what your lawyer said. This, "it means nothing" in regards to what the papers say; I don't like how he brushed that away. It means something TO YOU because it isn't true and it upsets you. Why can't this wording be changed? I would not just let it go at that just because the lawyer says so. Think about this: will that wording bother you if the D. goes through? Can you live with it, the way it reads now? If not, please call another lawyer and just ask them about the wording and if it could be changed. I don't want you to let this go because I KNOW it has bothered you since you read it.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
