Hi. Sounds like we’re both frustrated. I know FD gave you opposing advice but I still stand by mine; your H. definitely has you coming & going, and it’s far too confusing for you. I think you need to find a way to talk with him about the situation as it stands, before anything like D. papers are signed. Like I said before, there is being amicable when proceeding w/D and then there is what your H. is doing, and I hate to see how it’s affecting you. I want very much for your marriage to survive but Imdi, I don’t think it will unless you stand up to him about his actions.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
