Hey FD - you definitely gave me something more to think about.
I don't want to confront my H in a nasty way. But, i would like him to know that his actions and words are very confusing to me. And i want to point that out to him. I want to ask him if the D is really what he wants, b/c he does and says a lot of things that make me question his commitment to D.
Nothing really new to report...H called me yesterday evening to make sure i got home from work okay. He wasn't feeling well, and neither was I. We chatted for a minute or 2, and then got off the phone. I called him later to see how he was feeling, but there was no answer at the house or on his cell. He called me this morning and we talked for a bit. He said he would call me later or tomorrow morning when he gets up so we can go to breakfast. That was about it.
I don't know whether to continue to have hope, or if i should just throw in the towel.