last night, he picked up a heavy marble bookend and threatened to bash my head in with it.
I told him that if he ever did that again, I would call the police and he would find himself in jail, starting a *close personal relationship* with his new cellmate, Bubba.
But sometimes, I think he's just plain pyscho. Which, yes, I know, doesn't speak well of me in staying with him.
The correct answer is "This isn't working. We need to stop enabling each other's destructive behavior and move on." "We are divorced. Let's act like it. We will BOTH be better off."
Oh Landica, this is quite a mess of a situation. I know you joke about it at times (defense mechanism) but I'm sure you are seriously concerned about it or you wouldn't be here. Obviously it goes waaaaayyy beyond SSM.
The real issue is NOt your R with HIM but your R will all men it seems to me. You made the comment that you have basically never had a good R. Always pick the wrong guys. Or they pick you. Maybe you need to focus on that and ask yourself why.
